WHAT A REAL WOMAN WANTS

 

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WHAT A REAL WOMAN WANTS

Now, you know it won’t be fair to talk about what a real man wants without also letting the guys know what a real woman wants, right? Well, yesterday, while I posted ‘What a Real Man Wants’, I started thinking, what does a woman wants? Now, not just any woman, but a real woman. I may not be the right person to say or tell what a real woman wants, but I could still tell the fellas what it is that woman wants that you just have to find out and ensure you do to bring out that woman in her.

There are five things I can say a real woman wants, but before I go on to state them, I wanna make clarifications that a real woman is not that woman you have on the side, just for the sex. She’s the one you plan on settling down with as a wife, she’s the one that you plan on making the mother of your kids, she’s the one that’s gone through hell and high water to bring out that man in you.

A woman is not really as convoluted as most men would think, she may appear all intelligent, sexy and beautiful, but at the core, she still needs that man that can make her feel like Eve, she needs that man that can make her forget her worries. She needs that man that can always come through as a knight, even though he has no shining armor.

Now, some women don’t even know what it is they want, because they have started to believe that whatever they’ve read in romance novels and seen on movies, is what should happen to them too, but girl, close that book, turn that TV off, and come on close to your computer screen and find out if this is what you really want. I had to ask one of my friends and here’s what she had to say:

‘’What a REAL WOMAN wants is LOVE!!! Period... LOVE is a many splendored thing!! LOVE will make you say YES!!! When all she hears is NO??!!! LOVE will open the door to whatever lies ahead!! LOVE will communicate her needs to others and her MAN will want to do that... There's a lot that can go into LOVE it’s not always sexual’’ – Renee Fesson Anthony

Now, to those five things a real woman wants in and from a man and what distinguishes a man that’s serious from that man that just wants you for the sex.

Words

Now, when I say words, I don’t mean just about any word, but the right words. You do know men are visual creatures, right? Well, ladies are also turned on by what they hear, so dudes, you need to step up your game and go read some books, show your woman how intelligent you are, now, don’t just rely on your words, back them up with action too. Since love is a verb, words play a major role in defining the actions that verb demands.

Right Touch

This is something that can’t be over emphasized; every relationship falls apart when this is neglected. And when I say touch, I know what’s running through your minds, but dude, that’s not all I’m referring to. Yeah, you need to be able to take her to that realm with your fingers, but not all touch should lead to sex. There are times when she needs for you to just touch her heart, do all those little things that matter. Never neglect the little things, they are what make or mar a relationship. Wake her up in the morning with a kiss and send her to bed with a smile…. 

Honesty

Now, any relationship that is not built on honesty is surely bound to hit the rocks. Dudes, I know how you wanna shield your woman from the truth and yeah, the truth is always bitter, but would you rather drink lies sweet juice, only to throw it up later? And at all times, the bitter truth is always the best drink. I know you may be scared of losing her with the truth, but when you have her with your lies, what do you think would happen when she finds out the truth? Dude, you need to let her know what the truth is and if she won’t stay with you cos of that, then, she’s gonna settle for a boy and not a real man.

Honesty pays, dude…

Emotional Maturity

Even if this applies to what a man needs from a real woman, dudes, you need to know that a real woman also needs for you to be emotionally matured. A woman is beautiful, you need to know that beauty is more than the looks and you need to understand that before you came into her life, she had a life of her own and she also had a past. You don’t expect her to let go of the past just cos she’s now met you.

A woman wants a man who can let her feel secure, a man that’s not afraid to show how he feels for her. A woman needs that man that’s not ashamed to show her off, a man that always keeps his promise.

Now, some women may be in an online relationship, or she may be in a long distance relationship, but one thing you should know, dude, is that, even though you may have not physically met that woman you’re dating online, or the distance between you two is so vast, you need to know that you also have to show her how emotionally matured you are. She may have gone through issues that she feels you can get her out of, so, dude, you need to step up to that plate and let her know that you’re for real.

Communication

This is one vital part of every relationship. It is the cement that binds all the bricks of relationship wall together. Now, the real woman wants that man that can communicate in a level that surpasses just word of mouth. When you can communicate, you make her feel like she has your attention and you best believe that when you have that woman’s attention, love’s bound to kick in.  Our words and in the way they are conveyed plays a major part in our relationship and sometimes, when words fail us, understanding kicks in, there are times when all she wants is a man that’d only listen. Communication is also about listening, you must know that she doesn’t want you talking all the time, you need to learn to listen to, a man that listens is bound to get that real woman. Now, I know some dudes might think that when you keep listening to your woman talk, that gives her the image that you’re weak, but dude, that aint true. How do you think she’d think of you if all you do is talk?

Make out time to let her know every time you get how you’re missing her, how you love her, give her little surprises. You don’t know what she might be going through at work and sometimes, she needs a message from you, with your goofy face or you can just call and let her know that all’d be well. These little gestures, goes a long way, dude.

So, dudes, you need to have all of these points on hand when you meet that real woman, but most importantly, you have to be yourself too. When you meet that real woman and she can see and feel that you got all these points covered, then dude, you really won’t be missing much, cos she’s gonna make a real man out of you.

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